A few Odd/Regressive posts in this thread.Tell that to someone who is polyamorous....and why does society have this toxic idea that we must shun our exes? Personally I'm still good friends with most of mine. One of my exes is my wife's best friend. And yes, they have compared notes...
I divorced my first wife because she was schizophrenic, not because i did not "love" her. Her illness made it impossible to continue with her in life. I still do not see her for that reason. But I still worry about her.....to the point of tears. It is not her fault.
I am "good" friends with my wife's ex-husband. He is a decent Guy/Person.
They have both taken a FEW cheap-shots at each other over these last 20 years. Nothing horrible, just normal stuff.
It amazes me, the number of people, that think every divorce is some type of Celebrity Level and Tabloid Worthy blow-out.
Many times it is simply two people that got together at 23 years of age, and by the time they hit 40.....had become different people, with different Interests/Hobbies...and simply grew apart.