2) Some labs now assume that you don't want your film back when you order "process and print" unless you specify that. IMO
jtk - let me state : That is the todays most strange issue (you mentioned the procedure of labs in the US)!
In Europe AFAIK it is not such worse with labs! I don't remember to be ask :" Can your negatives come in the trash after printing"


?
But I should add : A print is not the priority for me! The negatives I have a need of!
Prints can be made comercially from different price classes in all formats! Prints I can made by my own in darkroom (from different conditions of quality


!)!
If a print is not good - it is no armageddon! It can be always make better again!
If a perfect made print (so much perfect like I am able to make from own workflow

) is hanging
at a wall and gets accidentely broken (I can't indeed not remember such case) but if it would happen : it's a case of low costs to make a new print!
Normal costom made prints (the cheap ones in 9x13cm) are worthless for me! I sometimes order it if I can't find the time for film development! Then I got a c41 film with allways 9x13 prints from
bad quality! The prints are a cheap alternate of contact prints in color!

!
I have a good first overview about what I shot!
So theoretically my lab could ask me :" Have you finished to look of your prints? Can the prints
come in the trash now?"
Seriously jdk - in most cases they could come into trash then



! I remember many films
with trashy shots

! But in most cases some shots are fine (3 - 4 out of 36 AND 4- 5 out of 120film) So I am an extreme
Film waster with 35mm film!
!
But not with 120film

!
Of course I give that exclusive "contacts" in 9x13

not in the trash because I payed for!
But a serious print is for me above 20x30 and for just one of that prints I have a need of more
than 100 shots

!
So it is an Armageddon if I am just missing one single film! Perhaps that single film with that shot of the month

!
And there is not the smallest consolation if a lab would tell me :
"Sir ceep calm you have the prints - how lucky you - we print accidentely in 5x7 (inch)!"
with regards

!