Kirk, why don't you just mount a lens and look through it? And why don't you stop theorizing and stop practicing?
Re Rodenstock and my little Apo Grandy of nothing at all -- do you even know what it is? -- the lens will produce a circular image with decent image quality 125 mm in diameter on 5" x 7" sheet film. On 4x5 it will produce rectangular images with clipped corners. It barely misses filling quarter plate with good image. The corners will have decent image quality on 6x12 and smaller formats. Rodenstock's claimed 120° isn't available on 6x9, the format for which I originally bought the lens. 120° by itself doesn't mean squat.
Re experience, when I bought my first interchangeable lens camera I bought a 50 mm lens with it. That was the done thing. The second lens I bought for it was a 200, the third was a 105. Learning how to reason from what the 50 saw to what the 200 would see took several minutes. Similarly for the 105. Its not hard. I don't see why you find the exercise so threatening.
Stop complaining and use your lenses. What do you have?
My 2x3/6x12 lens kit isn't the smallest possible. 35, 47, 58, 60, 65, 75, 80, 85, 90, 100, 101 (macro only), 105, 120, 127, 130, 135, 150, 158, 160, 180, 210, 240, 250, 255, 300, 305, 360, 420, 450, 480, 610, 900. They don't all travel with me and few get much use. A small difference in focal length means very little for lenses longer than normal (100 mm for 6x9, 125 mm for 6x12). Note that the focal lengths listed are all as engraved; actual focal lengths may differ from engraved by as much as 3%.
Focal length tells you several important things about what a lens will do. In particular, and this is very important for view cameras and similiar, for lenses of normal construction (retrofocus and telephoto lenses are not of normal construction) it tells you the flange-to-film distance when the lens is focused at infinity. This makes it possible to answer the question "can I even use the thing on my camera?" And for all lenses it allows one to calculate extension from the infinity position needed to get the desired magnification. This is critically important for closeup and macro work. As I've said, you don't know very much. This is not an insult, it is an observation.
Your engine example is poorly taken. An engine's displacement give a weak indication of its power output, the length of the cylinder block gives no indication of the power output.
Put your shovel away, stop digging, and start looking through your lenses. Figuring out which of the lenses ready to hand to use doesn't take years of experience.