Hello Alan,
Most films work relatively well in most developers: it's exposing each film correctly, and developing them the optimal way, what defines the best possible image structure.
But no matter if box speed can always be used (with extended development sometimes) with certain films box speed is not the optimal EI for some developers.
In general box speed is reached for sure with developers that offer a third or two thirds more speed than standard MQ developers: the common ones are TMaxDev, Microphen, Xtol, DD-X, etc. (Xtol and DD-X milder, TMaxDev and Microphen wilder).
Some TMax experts say TMax films were designed to look great in MQ developers like D-76, but giving them a bit more light than box speed, and then those films were offered for box speed use, with no extended development, by using other faster developers. But TMax films should be downrated a third or two in D-76, or if not, at least pushed a bit.
Xtol was promoted by Kodak as better than D-76 in speed, grain and sharpness, and for that sales intention they designed a graph with sliders to convince people on how great Xtol is. That graph isn't accurate... If it were, the sliders for those three concepts should be nearly idetically placed for Xtol and D-76 because their differences are very small, and not what the graph pretends. I've used Xtol with a few films and I don't like its tone for soft light as much as I like the tone of D-76: sometimes it produces a plasticky, flat, unreal tone in my opinion. And extending development adds contrast but it doesn't change tone character. I consider Xtol a very good developer for direct sunlight though, but anyway it's too sensitive to some types of water, and it dies without color change, so those are problems sometimes.
If you want to develop for wet printing, learning with D-76 is the best option in my opinion. If you want to scan, you'll be making a digital photograph from a negative, and the resulting new tone will be a different one depending on devices and software, so as you get away from film's real silver paper tone, it makes more sense (and it implies less hassle) using a digital camera instead of film.
Setting a darkroom is fun and it's not expensive, and the whole process of wet printing is a pleasure and it's an incredibly capable one.
If you prefer scanning negatives, Xtol stock or Xtol replenished with short development times are great options because you won't have very sharp grain and you'll work tone digitally after scanning. But remember your best negatives for scanning won't be, if in the future you're interested in wet printing, the best ones for silver paper in the darkroom.
Enjoy your time!