I was talking about 'everybody', including non-photographers, who look at photographs in galleries, museums, or in coffee shops, for that matter.
I am just as convinced that people look at, and appreciate, tonality, color, shape, texture, form, and most of all, content when they view up close. Does sharpness affect how they look at a print up close? Maybe. But that doesn't mean they appreciate it more.
To me, perfectly sharp and realistic prints can be a wonderful thing to behold. But like grain it neither makes or breaks a picture.
A Cartier-Bresson printed by Sid Kaplan is a gorgeous thing to behold. 16x20 prints from 'old' 35mm Tri-X. I can still remember the prints that hung at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts right after HCB died. They had a profound impact on me. And up close they were NOT sharp, and they were grainy, and they were absolutely beautiful.
In my own photography and printmaking I make prints from pinhole negatives a lot of the time. They are 8x8" prints from 120 negatives, and they are impossibly unsharp. So I have to rely on tonality instead to make some visual impact. It works pretty well, and it's a picture that many people and peers appreciate; sharpness and detail has absolutely nothing to do with it. And this goes to prove that people can look at a photograph with their nose up against it, looking for meaning in the pictures - whether they are sharp or not. Which ultimately just means that it is highly individual what we look for in a photograph in order to appreciate it.