Hmm... well basically in my eyes, with my own work, for some reason i find the tonal separation to be... well, inconsistent and blotchy. I like a smooth transition between tones. To me, a beautiful print is about it being smooth, even, with nice tone, and a nice changing of tone. With grain in my own prints, i just feel un excited, and kind of a little taken back. However i only feel this with my own work, perhaps because when judging my own work, i have a much more specific view on things, and i have an image in my head that i'm trying to replicate. I will admit that with other people's work, i do get more wowed with less grain generally. But grain can often be very pretty. I guess it comes down to how i imagine my images. I'm what you call a romanticist, and as such, i tend to try to have a "dreamy" look to my prints, This is why i tend to use sloppy borders, and satin finish papers, when i have that available. For me, grain does not fit in with my view of "dreamy". Now that's not to say that i don't think that other people will consider grain as being dreamy, but for me, it does not fit in. This opinion only affects my own work, and i'm not totally sure why this is, but i believe it has something to do with the fact that i am super meticulous about my work, and when looking at others work, i am more interested in seeing what they think is beauty, what they see in their head, what they decide is what represents them. For me, grain does not represent me, or my personality, so i don't think it has a place in my work. I don't know if this covers what you were asking well enough or not. Let me know if it doesn't, and i will further articulate