Distilled vinegar is just an acetic acid solution. It works fine if you dilute it correctly. Stop baths are typically in the 2-3% range. You do the math for the product you have.
Don't use other vinegars unless you really want to play with non-traditional toning

(maybe a red-wine vinegar tinged print, or balsamico-brown?)
A water stop bath will do the job, but comes with some inherent shortcomings. Running water is best. If you just use a tray of water, it needs to be changed often or developer will build up in you stop bath, changing it to a go bath...
A stop bath, water, or otherwise, does not remove developer from the film/paper. It stops it action by changing the pH of the environment so it is no longer active. Developer transferred from a water stop to an alkaline fixer can more easily be re-activated causing streaking and fogging if one turns on the white light too soon. (don't ask how I know...). the same can happen with an acid stop, but is less likely. It's a good idea to fix film for at least half the total fixing time before exposing it to white light.
Most alkaline fixers are formulated with enough buffering to allow the use of an acid stop bath without it adversely affecting the pH of the fixer. The late Ron Mowrey (PE) confirmed this in a post some years ago about TF-5.
If using an acid or more neutral fixer (e.g., Ilford Rapid Fixer), using an acid stop will prolong the life of the fixer, and is therefore recommended.
Citric acid works well as a stop bath. It is available as a pre-mixed photo chemical (e.g., Ilfostop) or as a raw chemical in powder form.
Concentrated acetic acid is/was available as a photochemical too. Glacial acetic acid is nasty stuff and needs to be handled with care. Its fumes are more than irritating, so ventilation is important. 28% acetic acid is less aggressive and easier to deal with; just dilute 16ml/liter. Kodak Indicator Stop concentrate is 20% acetic acid with the addition of an indicator dye IIRC.
Best,
Doremus