Katharine Thayer
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Those who tell you that you aren't entitled to an opinion unless you are a subscriber are not uncommon, especially on other forums, though equally, some seem to think that being a subscriber means that their own opinions are entitled to be given far more weight than they sometimes deserve.
I wouldn't know what other forums you're talking about, since this is the first (and probably the last) forum I've belonged to that has a subscription option. But if it's common here to tell people they're not entitled to an opinion unless they're a subscriber, I still say that's at odds with the stated goal of being welcoming to newcomers.
As to thin skins... I have something of a reputation for being as tenacious as a pit bull when it comes to issues that matter to me, so I'm not sure thin-skinned would be an accurate way to label me. But it's also true that I don't tend to stick around where I've been told I'm not wanted, when no such issues are at stake and it doesn't matter to me one way or the other.
And after all, it goes both ways. When I said that I'm comfortable with the understanding that I don't "belong" in the general forums, that was an acknowledgement of my lack of fit with the culture, as well. My mistake, that prompted my initial post to this thread, was supposing that I might not be the only one who felt that way.
I seem to be doing rather a spectacularly poor job of explaining myself, and I'm going to quit before I get any farther behind.
kt
But if it's common here to tell people they're not entitled to an opinion unless they're a subscriber, I still say that's at odds with the stated goal of being welcoming to newcomers.
I have to say I too have learned more here than any other thing I have done to better myself in photography.
Katherine,
I have had more than a few people ignore me when I wrote something or offered an opinion and often felt discounted. I've always been sensitive to being ignored.
Absolutely true in my case as well. With the added benefit of meeting (virtually and in person) a large number of very nice people from around the world. One of the site's strengths is that there are differing opinions on a number of matters, some related to photography, some not. Just like in the real world.
I hear Vendala Vunderbust and Hans Uberhung are serving tonight at the Lens and Tripod. Can't think of a better time for a drink. I'm buying.
Katherine,
I have had more than a few people ignore me when I wrote something or offered an opinion and often felt discounted.
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So if many of us appear to ignore a thread or two please realise we can't read every word posted every day, and certainly can't respond to them all .
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I just don't understand how people can get so worked up over a simple internet website. Open the curtains and windows, let in some fresh air and get away from the damn computer for a couple of minutes a day.
Somebody really needs to open a bar called The Lens and Tripod, preferably in a quaint but somewhat ominous passageway in a seaside English village, or a foggy London alley.
Oh, and the interior should never meter above an EV 5, even with ISO 400 film!
Although some of us do try -
Although some of us do try - to the detriment of other things like sleep, work and photography...
George:
You are royally pissed off about the council. You have expressed your concerns, sometimes vehemently. My only suggestion - pause, breathe deep, and, if you so choose, come back another day with only substantive comments, and not comments about comments made by others.
Sean (and moderators):
Sean's earlier measured response, setting out the history of the matter, was an ideal response to George's slightly more heated approach to the question.
As strong as George words may seem, and as full of emotion as they may be, it seems to me that they are more critical, than inflammatory. I'd hate to see George being excluded from the site, because of how much he appears to care about the site.
Hardly even $0.02 worth, even at the currently high value of the Canadian dollar.
Matt
George wrote:
"I look upon APUG, first and foremost, as a community of folk who share a fundamental interest in and a desire to preserve film photography. That's a fairly wide umbrella under which many diverse interests can gather - but it is the core principal."
RIGHT ON!
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