Re: OP - you can use Pyro developers with 35mm. I've had good success with both Ilford FP4+ and Kodak Tri-X. Especially the FP4 negatives are very very sharp and the grain is also nice (it looks good but is prominent). 12"x16" prints from 35mm FP4+ yields prints that I compare to Tri-X medium format developed in Rodinal grain wise and sharpness in the final print of the same size.
I think Nicholas Lindan has a good point, though - if you have a winner shot it's not going to matter that much what developer you use. I have lately used Rodinal with almost every negative I've made, and absolutely love it. I used to use Pyrocat-MC, and while I have nothing against Pyrocat, I did manage to contaminate a liter set about half way through it. I like single bottle developers better, so I don't have to worry about it. My negs are just as sharp, if not sharper, but I get a little bit more grain if I use normal developing techniques. With semistand development I don't notice much difference in grain, if any.
Rodinal and Neopan Acros is a great combination! Tack sharp negatives with very tight grain. If you're shooting at night, Kodak TMax 400 has almost the same reciprocity characteristics, but you gain two stops in speed. That's significant improvement and to me the ideal night time film.
Anyway, just some suggestions. Good luck!
- Thomas