Regarding widest aperture open enlarging lens focussing, you simply cannot make blanket generic claims. Most modern enlarging lenses are free of focus shift, but not all. You have to check for this, especially with cheaper lenses having relatively wide max apertures. Focussing wide open allows brighter, more accurate viewing when fine tuning the focus. But that's all contingent on your neg being perfect flat and parallel to begin with. If the light is simply too bright for comfortable wide-open focus, simply dial in equal amounts of CMY on the head temporarily to provide neutral density, or simply use an ND filter if you've got one of those ancient beehive enlarger heads complete with bees flying in and out of it. My brother used on of those, presumably stolen from a hair salon.