Thanks for the reply. This is the Leonard 270 and specs are:
- PRESSURE-TEMPERATURE: 5-1/2" 140mm H C
- Minimum Flow: 0.25 GPM (0.95 l/Min)* Maximum Pressure: 125 PSI (8.6 BAR)
- Maximum Hot Water temperature: 200F- (93°C)
- Approach Temperature 5°F (2.8°C) above set point.
- Temperature adjustment range, 90-140ºF (32-60ºC) **
So maybe it's the wrong valve for my needs. The water heater I have needs a min.4 gpm flow to operate which is within the valves specs but I see temperature range of the mixing valve is 90-140 degrees and I'm trying to get 68 degrees. I dont think that will ever work! I dont know how delta is selling this valve in their dark room mixer assembly. Something could be going over my head though!

My cold water is from a well, and is around 51, and gets about 5 degrees warmer in summer.
Theads are are in good shape, but they aren't pipe threads with a taper. The thread count is the same but no taper. I may try an o-ring seat or hose gasket.
The flow meter was for me to know how low I can run the water. I see what your saying about it being in the wrong path but I did run the water way faster than I normally do when running 68 water using just my faucet.