Safelight!
Oh, the fog was (at least mostly) safelight fog! It seems that erythrosine gives quite good sensitization even to yellow wavelengths.
Our orangish-red LED safelight won't fog any multicontrast enlarging paper at all, but 1 minute from 15 cm distance gives almost dmax on our emulsion -- that corresponds to about one hour at 100 cm in black room. We used the same safelight in the first, non-erythrosine emulsion.
We used the safelight all the time. Now we know what to do: go towards longer wavelengths (625 nm), reduce safelight level as much as possible and use it only when necessary.
It's very reassuring to note that the wash is probably not the main culprit, or a culprit at all, and that the spectral sensitization really worked quite well.