VinceInMT
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If she gave up work, you might spend more time together so you don't have as much time for your personal hobbies. Suddenly, you're traveling more, going to the theater, etc. Also, people often downsize their homes in retirement.
Her business operates out of our house so we are together all the time. The only time we are not, business related, is during tax season when clients come over to the house. I have to stay in my man cave, darkroom, or art studio as I am not even allowed to know who her clients are. She’s really big on ethics.
And, we have frequently taken separate vacations for the nearly 40 years we’ve been together. I take cross country motorcycle trips and go solo. She’s flown to Atlanta few times to run a half marathon there when I couldn’t go due to classes I was taking. I went to Italy last May with a school group. Stuff like that. But we do go on trips together, road trips preferred, sometimes with a race at the other end. We’ve done that in Bismarck, Pittsburgh, Los Angeles, and a few others.
Yes, I hear than some downsize in retirement but I seriously doubt that I will. I have a friend who moved from here to another state and got a larger house with a big room to support his wife’s long arm quilting machine. I not only have all my stuff in my present house but we bought the place across the street as an investment property and give our tenant, an elderly woman, a screaming deal on the rent as I retain the spot alongside the garage for my sailboat, the RV slab for my old pickup, and half the garage for one of my cars and a motorcycle.
Of course, we live in Montana where lots of people go to for vacation so we don’t have to travel far to “get away,” we are already there. The Beartooth Highway is an hour away. Yellowstone park is 2 hours. Day trips.