Mike Lopez
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For me, there is nothing to “go through” as everything is filed by date and content both digitally and physically. And I don’t have a problem with my heirs going through my outtakes, after all, they tell as much of a story as who I am and what I did as the ones that were eventually printed or shared.
For practically my kids' entire lives I've been pointing cameras at them. As they became teenagers, they would sometimes be less patient with me, and the eye rolls almost became palpable eventually, as I would tell them to "go stand over there...now move one step to your left...now take one step forward...ok, now put your arm around your sister...ok, now hold it!"
Little did they know that I was secretly working in my darkroom, making contact prints when they weren't around. I would simply tell them that they would be thankful to have boxes of negatives someday, documenting their childhoods, after I'm long gone. And then right before my son left for college, I gave him a gift: a custom wood box, made by a friend, with 817 finished and mounted prints inside, along with journal entries, poems, and other writings transferred to boards to accompany the prints. I made an exact replica for his mom (we're no longer married, but we're cool). I'll do the same for my daughters when they are of age.
The only problem in the future might be the arguments over who gets which negatives when I'm gone.
