A low contrast lens will almost certainly be softer in the sharpness stakes as well so possibly defeating your aim of sharp images. A Rodagon 80/F4 is about as good as it gets before going onto stupid money with the APO versions. I use both a 50/2,8 APO and an 80/F4 non APO and the quality of both are outstanding with the 50mmAPO version having the slight edge.
Using multigrade papers will almost certainly cure your contrast problems without compromising the quality. I have never had to go below grade 1 dialed in on my enlarger. Even then it was a little bit on the contrast soft side. The other way you can go about it is to over expose and under develop. You will get more shadow detail and the highlights will be suppressed. My preference is for Ilford Delta 100 exposed at 80iso and the developing reduced by exactly 8% in ID11 at 1-1 dilution. The smooth tones have to be seen to be believed, very close on what I would expect a larger format camera.
Using multigrade papers will almost certainly cure your contrast problems without compromising the quality. I have never had to go below grade 1 dialed in on my enlarger. Even then it was a little bit on the contrast soft side. The other way you can go about it is to over expose and under develop. You will get more shadow detail and the highlights will be suppressed. My preference is for Ilford Delta 100 exposed at 80iso and the developing reduced by exactly 8% in ID11 at 1-1 dilution. The smooth tones have to be seen to be believed, very close on what I would expect a larger format camera.
