chip j is the only one looking for some magic in enlarger lenses, some distinctive and enveloping conveying of feeling, or a punchy and grabby visual power, or a misty morning sensation..
manufacturers tryed to put the most advanced technology (until the industry died) into the utmost clarity, resolving power, contrast, distortion free, aberration free possible in a lens, regarding price, size and doability. This means that the attempt was to produce a lens that was the purest flow from the negative or positive. Enlarger lenses are among the best in their purposes...
6 element lenses multicoated lenses from the main manufacturers and even some others manage to be much better than most focusing skills and enlarger alignment and flare, and negative carrier alignment (some are even glassless...). Photographic technique also tend to be an issue. Developers and developing... pfff......
a different character than the highest degree of transparence or neutrality is not a thing in an enlarger lens, is just another name for: lack of contrast, lack of resolution, poor focusing or alignment, fungus, scratches, poor build, poor design, cheap market target, a fall...
even russian designs of enlarger lenses are on the track of this utmost clarity
but: you can use what you want to make whatever you want and need no aproval from a forum... and you should! you can even stop photography and start sculpture or painting.
i think you should try to search that character in other lenses than enlarging. You could try to print through a camera lens, or a lensbaby, or a round fish tank (remember sutton lens?)
using a apo-nikkor 105mm instead of a 4 element amateur lens from a good manufacturer (or even a proper aligned russian enlarger lens) in a 30x40cm enlargement is not going to change you from a mediocre photographer to a stellar one...
Miroslav tíchý images are an extreme of this character... you can search his enlarger and cameras.
No lens will make you shine through your photographs.... just your thinking and doing.