I threw out an El Nikor 50mm f/2.8 because it was soft on the edges. Now I see similar on the APO Rodagon (not N) 50mm f/2.8 wide open...
I went through the same - then finally followed Bob Solomon's advice and got a glass carrier and a Zig-Align. Then I found the lenses performed identically at f5.6. I sold the APO. I rarely use the glass carrier - the dust and occasional fingerprint smear is a PITA.
YMMV - as has been pointed out, sample variation between 'identical' lenses can be just as large as variation between brands and types.