Ok Berri, let's back up a bit.
You can define a perfect situation, like a studio set with strobes, where the light is the perfect temperature in every shot.
In the wild you can't.
Front lit scenes have a different temp, than cross lit, than back lit, than shade, than mid-day, than evening, than.........
If you are shooting a portrait and the client wants the skin to look 'a nice normal warm color' you will have to correct the color balance in each of those situations. The back lit and mid day shots will be varying degrees of 'too blue' the evening shot might be too yellow........
The grey card gets you a reference point to 'peg' the corrections of the face tones against.