I just wanted to thank all of you for having this conversation last year. I had very similar concerns as the OP when looking into at-home C-41 processing.
I decided to start with the Fuji X-Press C-41 5L kit (only kit available in the US with separate bleach and fix). When opening it up, I decided to only mix up 1L of all the solutions. I then ran the process on a tank with two 35mm rolls, and it actually came out looking great.
Of course it wasn't until a day or two later that I learned that the developer concentrates don't keep... and that you're really supposed to just mix up the full 5L of everything and cold(ish) store full unused bottles of mixed developer to maximize life. So I'm probably going to mix-and-store the rest soon, and cross my fingers.
When I exhaust this kit (more likely due to expiration than due to usage volume), I'm definitely interested in moving over to the Kodak chemicals. Making heads or tails of what those chemicals are, and what you're supposed to buy, has been quite confusing. So I'm very thankful this thread has clarified all of that, right up to the point of basically giving me a specific shopping list. (And to my surprise, that shopping list is actually cheaper than the Fuji kit, for an equivalent quantity.)