Apology accepted. As my Dear Old Dad, may he rest in peace, would have said... just deal with it. It's not very interesting to a lot of us.
I personally would never send those quantities of money to someone I have no business relationship and certainly little recourse with. I have over 300 transactions on EBay, maybe four or five were of questionable nature and in total, I might be out 150 dollars over 8 years. If I buy on speculation, I evaluate my risk, sometimes I win, sometimes I lose, but you'll never hear about it.
That is all I have to say about that.
tim in san jose