Hi everyone who contributed to this thread, it´s been a complete pleasure to read from start.
It so happens to be that I recently (last week) bought myself a Focomat V35. I have previously used a Opemus 5 with an EL-Nikor 50mm F2.8, obviously a condenser enlarger. The most noticable changes I first noticed when switching enlarger was that the grain almost vanished from the prints. Of course this is because of the diffused light source in the V35. Secondly, and that was probably the most apparent change, the contrast was very different. Not just significantly lower on standard grade 2 but fine details in the shadow areas was much more visible and finer rendered. Don´t really know how to describe it in a better way but even if I crank up the contrast to 3-4, it is still very much more details in the shadows than if I enlarge in the Opemus on grade 2, or for that matter my Durst M800 (condenser setup) or B30. My EL-Nikkor is not the N-version but the Focotar 40mm 2.8 is just way better in every aspect. That said, the Nikkor is a very fine performer and certainly not bad, it´s even very good. It´s just that the Focotar is better. Reading in the thread about the APO Rodagons makes be really wonder how it compares in bigger prints.
When I first swapped my Durst Neotaron 50mm F2.8 with a EL-Nikkor 50mm F4 I thought that it could´nt get very much better, with the Nikkor 50mm F2.8 I was proven wrong but again I thought; OK, now it must be pretty much as good as it gets. With the Focotar I was proven wrong again. I like being proven wrong in these cases.
Last, the Focomat (once AF-calibrated) is a masterpiece but got damn it is big! My Durst M800 (up to 6*9cm negs) and the V35 is about the same size and the Focomat is way heavier, only downside I can think of but one I can live with.
Just my thoughts on the matter, and yes 35mm enlarging can really be wonderful when everything falls into place, I thought my cravings for MF gear would stop with my M Leica but it didn´t, it stopped with the Focomat V35.