Argue argue argue.
Here's a test. Two cameras, one APS-C one Full frame. Both using the same lens and setting. I tried to approximate the distance offset when using the crop.
Canon EOS 5DMk4, EF 24-70 f/5.0 1/125 ISO100. Lens is set to 50mm
Canon 550D (T2i) EF 24-70 f/5.0 1/125 ISO100. Lens is set to 35mm
Yes, I'm slightly closer using the 5D full frame but look at the difference in background blur. Compare the garage and swing set and the distance between the two shots is not much
Just to try on the pants I got much closer with the APS-C sensor to boost the blur
Go argue over stats and papers. I went out and took the shots to prove my point.
I rest my case.