The seal may be bad more in the middle than the edges - it's not necessarily the whole thing that's bad, but you can't change just part of it. And it also matters how the light hits it when the dark slide is out. I'd suggest doing several shots in bright sun with the dark slide slot covered by something definitely light tight and then a few frames where you don't. Then at least you'll know.
As for your changing room - if you make it dark and stay there for twenty minutes, can you see your hand in front of your face? If it's completely dark, you won't see it. And light in the changing room wouldn't get only the middle and always the middle. If that's the only part of your films that have had extra exposure, then it's happening at a time when most of the film is blocked.
What type of tank and reel are you using to develop it?