I've used XTOL 1+3 with TMY on many ocassions without problems. Using it at the same dilution with Tri-X should be no different. The 1L packets, whch are by now ancient history, had nothing to do with it. XTOL made from these packets reportedly suffered from early and sudden failure, caused by poor packaging.
The "problem" of using XTOL at high dilutions is one of capacity from what I've seen. A roll of film, about 80 square inches, requires a minimum of 100 ml of stock solution to insure complete development according to Kodak. In the real world, I feel safer with at least 150 ml. You cannot acheive that minimum at 1+3 unless your tank can contain at least 600ml of solution. Needless to say, a single reel tank with a capacity of 250 to 300 ml. won't cut it. Two rolls of film in a two reel tank won't cut it either. To make this work, you need a fairly large tank with a relatively small amount of film and a large amount of solution. Stick to the minimums or better, and the combination works fine. Skimp on developer and you get skimpy development.