Those are exactly the type of people that make me dislike photographers, Tel.
And I joke about that, but I really do dislike what I refer to as "photography enthusiasts", which I mean as a pejorative. People who would fight over whether Canon or Nikon is better are the obvious example. Whatever you enjoy using that works with your use case is the best, always has been, but especially so nowadays when modern digital cameras are all so darned good!
It's less hardware focused here, but even this place isn't perfect. I honestly dislike the attitudes of many of the people here, though I try not to call them out too often. I'm here to learn things, and appreciate knowledge. I tend more to praise what I like, or talk about techniques, unless I'm in a grouchy mood like today.
My point is that enthusiasts have made me not bother with photography clubs and the like. I went to one many years ago and disliked most of the folks in the room, and haven't gone back. I just don't see the hobby like they do.
Actually, here's my prime example. As a very young man in the 90s I wrote for a magazine and also did my own photography for those articles as well as freelance work. Small time stuff, I was not making my living as a photographer, but I DID get photos published quite regularly.
Worked with a guy around 2000 who let me know he was a photographer and had once worked in a camera store, so one day I showed him a magazine with my photo on the cover and one of my favorites in the accompanying article. He looked at the photos, asked what camera I used, and when I told him (it was a 4004s or an EM, which was a junker I always had in my flight bag) he started off on how I wasn't a professional because I'd used that camera.
I wasn't a professional, he says. As he looks at a photograph I sold, that was published in a magazine, back in 1991 when you actually had to print those things on dead trees. He insisted on this even when someone else pointed out that the photo was good. All because of the gear I used at that moment.
These are photography enthusiasts. I'll also note that in the 4 years I knew that guy, never once did he ever show me a photograph he'd taken. It was all about snobbery, the "right" camera, the "right" lens, or whatever.
I love my cameras, but they're tools. I like taking pictures, and I like the process, but it never seems to matter what camera I had when I look at the negatives and scans. My favorite photos all still seem to look like me. I can even tell you what my mood was or what I was trying to achieve at the time by the composition of the photo. And if anyone ever says "It's so SHARP!" as their first response to seeing a photo I failed, because I am not taking pictures to prove I can focus well and hold still.
The brand of bedsheet folks are exactly the sort who inhabited the photography club a couple decades ago. They'd probably chat with old Frank, the Nikon snob, endlessly slagging on about how terrible the off brand is when you can't get proper 300 or better thread count egyptian cotton