JBrunner said:
Ok I read up (sideways) on the closest thing to this meter I could find-here-
http://www.gossen-photo.de/pdf/ba_lunasixf_e.pdf
If your meter operates the same (it probably does) you have to set the meter to flash, then depress,
and release the meter button,
then trigger the flash, then calculate the reading using your chosen ASA and 1/60 of a second as your shutter speed. So you push and release the button first, then trigger the flash. Theoretically, at least thats how I read it. No sync needed. Never seen this before. But I live in Utah

If that doesn't do it, IDK.
I think you (djkloss) may be taking your reading from the wrong section of the meter's dials. Check the face of your meter for a "lightning bolt" - if it is like mine that is the mark you need to refer to, not a particular shutter speed.
I have and use a Gossen Profisix (a European/Canadian designation) with flash metering attachment. It works in much the same way as the Lunasix F referred to above.
My questions are:
1) is your meter one of the ones that uses a needle, that you need to "null" - i.e. do you need to adjust the meter dials until the needle is over a mark?
2) if so, when you are reading the f/stop suggested, what are you using as the reference mark?
On my meter, I place the meter at the subject location and point it back (either to the flash, or the camera position, depending on my purposes and on how many flashes I am using). I then push the button that turns the meter on, then a "start" button (on the accessory unit) that initializes the meter. The needle moves all the way to the left. I then trigger the flash, and the meter needle responds by moving to a location, and stopping.
I then rotate the meter dial until the needle lines up with the "O" or null mark.
Then, I read the f/stop by noting where the
special flash indicator (a stylized lightning bolt) is located adjacent to the f/stop dial.
The "lightning bolt" is on the shutter speed dial, but is not there to indicate a shutter speed. The flash meter function ignores shutter speeds.
On my meter, the "lightning bolt" is located on the between the 1 second and 2 second marks. Yours may very well be at another location.
Edit: as I look again at the instruction manual referenced above - I see that the "lightning bolt" is in the same location as on my meter. It is item 8 on the numbered list of markings/parts at the beginning of the manual.
Hope this helps.
Matt