I don't know about 18% gray; I don't think any reflection meter is calibrated to that of which I am aware.
A meter can give any exposure the manufacturer wants based on the chosen "K" constant. Frequently this is listed in the specs for the meter. If your meters agree, that is great, you don't have to re-calibrate the digital camera.
I don't know how you would be metering, but for B&W film, one would want to do like the Matrix meter does, and find the low values that would need to be imaged on film using the digital camera's histogram. If using the histogram of the digital camera, heed the warning that the middle calibration point is based off the highlights. So some calibration is needed.
If you are using the digital camera just like a hand-held spot meter, without the histogram, the results might be inferior to the Nikon film camera's own built-in Matrix metering for film exposure.