wiltw, thank you for your answer!
when i exposed the hp5 and fp4, i sticked the stouffer TP120-31 to a window masked it with black cardboard and took an average reading with the prism finder's internal light meter (relying that it would give me a more or less accurate exposure and compensating for the 2 stops for the bellows i used).
i wasnt able too take a reading off of bar nr. 16 with my spotmeter, because one bar on the TP120-31 is 3,3 mm wide, that is too narrow to take a reding with my pentax off of that single bar.
to take a reading of one single bar with a spotmeter, i think you have to use a Stouffer 4x5 inch with 31 (or 21) bars.
saying that, the spotmeter should have a close up lens, so that you can get close enough with the spotmeter to that one bar (16 or 11) to take a reflective reading...
FYI, i asked at Souffers for bar widths of different step tablet sizes,...so here is what i got as a reply:
The step size of the TP120-21 is 4.9mm and the TP120-31 is 3.32mm.
The step size of the TP4x5-21 is 9.525mm and the TP4x5-31 is 6.4mm.