Selenium is absorbed through the skin. So, don't drink it and don't stick your bare hands in it.
Best practice is to wear gloves when toning or use tongs and rinse any splashes with running water immediately. Goggles are a bit overkill unless you tend to splash around in the toner a lot, but a good idea if you do and for Ilford to demonstrate with them (for liability issues).
As mentioned, it's also important to clean up any spills quickly and well so they don't dry and the powder become airborne.
The largest problem with fumes from selenium toner is the ammonia; it can irritate and is downright unpleasant. Good ventilation helps. Selenium won't evaporate or aerosolize, so a respirator really isn't needed. FWIW, replenished toner has almost no ammonia odor at all and still tones just fine.
The real danger in exposure to selenium is from the powdered selenium reagent used to mix toners from scratch. A respirator, goggles, gloves, apron, vent hood and excellent ventilation should be used for mixing your own. Or mix outdoors with appropriate protective equipment.
For my part, I'll stick to buying the liquid concentrate from Kodak or whomever. I don't need powdered selenium sitting on my shelf.
And, eat those Brazil nuts in moderation, especially if you're toning without gloves!
Best,
Doremus