noblebeast said:
What amazes me the most in following this thread is how quickly and confidently so many individuals are able to enter and map the psyche of the artist and the gallery owner. I had no idea that, besides so many talented photographers, APUG also plays host to many gifted psychologists, for whom the complexities of the human mind pose not the slightest problem. And all this from a few paragraphs of a news story! And apparently no one has seen the work in question, nor sat down and spoken to the two protagonists, and yet they are able to dissect every bit of thought and motivation behind the events down to the most subtle nuance of human consciousness. Remarkable!
I need to learn the address for this wonderful correspondence course immediately. Oh, and does the cost include a ready-to-frame diploma?
Joe
Comes after hours of labor, and a life time of rearing small children to take responsibility for their actions.
As for Ashcroft, I have said many times in other threads he is a a$$hole. He should have repeated enemas administered with someones steel toed work boots. Does that make me part of the Ashcroft conspiracy as it seems to be here? Hell no. I have an opinion of my own. To say that I am part of Ashcroft is doing exactly like it was stated about getting into someone elses psyche.
How many of you MEN have wives, sisters, or mothers? I bet you have at least one of those mentioned. What happens when you do something you know will upset (piss them off) them? What do you do? Do you hide and blame someone else? or do you take responsibility for your actions. There is a third option. Or do you have responsibility foisted back at you by said female?
As for the Gallery owner, she must have had a few classes in art history. There would have been references about historical problems with an image some may not like. She also resides in San Francisco area. There are some areas in town you just do not go into, ie the Tenderloin. If she had her gallery in the Castro section, it would have been applauded. It just happened to be in the one small enclave that is conservative. As for the other a$$hole that did punch her, the taxpayers can save a bundle. Just put me in the back with him and my instructions for vasectomies and my dull spoon.
As for knowing she would get *A* reaction yes she should have. Now what kind of reaction you would have to take the variables into account. I for one did not say *WHAT* reaction she should have expected. Given the 2 weeks prior to the event that she was getting negative feedback, that would in my small illiterate pea brain of incomprehensibility have told me that something was wrong. WOMEN do know the dangers of being accosted by a man. I am NOT by saying this excusing what happened. Walk a few days in a womans shoes and tell me what you think of that (that for the MEN of this thread.) Notice I am the only female that dares to speak up. Why? Because I learned a long time ago to not take the crap that is fed to me by SOME men. I get tired of the patronizing pats on the head, and the attitude that the male is all knowing. As for condescending, that comes with the statements of being unable to understand. The putting it into a kindergarten text did not work, it was still over the heads of many here. Maybe a few "SEE spot run." should have been added. If dissention is
NOT what you are after, then do not start threads where someone is not going to agree with you. Is that not what this is really about? Someone did not agree with what was happening. Yet we here in this thread are doing likewise. We are verbally attacking and belittling others. What does that teach children? that adults are little better than those who did the attack in real life. What do you teach your children? Do you teach them to take responsibility if they do something wrong? What do you teach your sons, brothers, or just other younger acquaintances about dealing with women? Pass a bad mood off as that time of the month? Guess what guys I am this way 24/7/365.
As for being sophisticated? Hell no I never want to be that. The term came about in the middle ages. It was the term used when a brewer of beer added sugar to the process to speed up the fermentation. It was punishable by death. Beer was thought of as liquid bread and a staple of life. In other words sophistication is the adulteration of the pure form. I leave that up to those who deem themselves so superior to be sophisticated. That is not claiming I am superior by saying that. I know full well I will be *VERBALLY ATTACKED* for saying as I have. I am use to it. I get it all the time being a female. It is either that or we are supposed to hide in the corners and pretend we have no opinion. We are to defer to the all knowing knowledgable male who is closest relation to us.
I applaud the men who here have stood up to voice an opinion that the woman did indeed have a brain. She was not some bit of fluff that had no clue. that was a movie, not real life. It still doesn't make what happened right. If you walk with blinders on, you will get run over or bump into something and possibly get hurt. I do not as another female expect she was walking around in a rose colored haze with blinders on. The world is not a pristine pastoral picture. Reality sucks. As for the aftermath she now has free at taxpayer expense a heightened patrol of North Beaches finest.
There are times a female does get attacked that she did not have warning of. I might pose the question at this point. Who was it that did the attack? Was it not a male? Ask the woman who many years ago was raped by one of the Kennedy's in Florida what she has to say about liberal justice. The crap that happens to women goes across all political boundaries. No one is excused.