Not sure I understand. TMX negatives can look thin, compared to older style emulsions, even when exposure and development are optimal. I doubt that over fixing bleached the image back, that would take an awfully long time. Washing cannot bleach the image back, but if you left the film in a tank of water over night, the emulsion might peel off the support.
Here's a question that you can answer yourself. When you examin the negatives under a loupe, do you have detail in the shadow (least dense) areas? If yes, then your exposure is good. If the prints look flat and lack contrast when printed on a grade 2 or 3 paper, then your development time is too short, or the temperatures too cool. Maybe your thermometer reads high. It can happen. I don't have any two thermometers that read exactly the same, and the dial type thermometers are particularly bad.