Matt, that's a wet print. Not fair.
Maybe "harsh" is the wrong word, but there's definitely something about T-Max images... they look like someone cranked "clarity" in Lightroom to the max. Technically it's probably a good thing, I suspect it has something to do with its MTF, but this look is not what I am looking for when shooting film.
Okay then, here is a scan from a TMY negative - haven't spent any real time on this in the darkroom, but I have tweaked it a bit digitally to make it presentable:
TMY in particular is an extremely flexible film. It certainly doesn't look digital to me, whether I'm printing it in the darkroom, or presenting it digitally.
It and T-Max are very fine grained, but once you become accustomed to it, it will reward you.
Both this example and the one posted earlier were processed in replenished X-Tol.
Just for the heck of it, this is on 35mm Plus-X, and it too is scanned from the negative: