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I'm a New Yorker all my life. I'm friendly. Always helpful to tourists, especially when they need someone to take their picture and are lost. The thing is New Yorkers are always busy running someplace, so that may come off as not friendly. But I've always noticed that they go out of their way to be helpful. I think we've gotten a bad rap. I'm first going to Paris and London so I'll tell you who's more friendly when I get back.
I lived and worked in Manhattan for nearly my entire adult life. New Yorkers are busy, but rarely rude. I've visited Paris over a dozen times, and have found Parisians invariably courteous, and usually kind.
The problem in both places is language. Neither New Yorkers nor Parisians are any good with foreign tongues. I speak French, and I have no problem communicating or mingling in France. But I have seen people from other countries (Americans, English and Germans especially) expecting to be understood in their native tongues, or "speaking" unintelligible French, and that elicits a frosty reply from the locals, and exasperation from the visitors.
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