You and me both. God rest her soul, she fought me on my photography tooth and nail. Yet well tolerated my dad's golf. All that money frittered away on with a heavy bag of garden implements to end up with nothing produced but a worthless scorecard. Substitute a hoe for the club and vegetables could have been harvested. Labor with no substance produced is a waste.
I think the crux of the problem is worrying about if other people care. If you only concentrate only what you care about, problem solved. Read this book and you'll now what I mean.