I wouldn't worry about using a stainless steel cooking saucepan to heat distilled water for mixing a developer. Just wash thoroughly before food use. Polyethylene pitcher? Either mixing developer or mixing lemonade, not both! Glass pitcher, just wash thoroughly. Glazed ceramic should be fine, although surface crazing would be a concern. Other materials, aluminum, etc, no. Might well react with the chemicals in the developer.
I use distilled water for mixing my D 76, dilute with distilled for 1 to 1 use, wash with tap water - ours is quite good, and use distilled for a photoflo rinse. In these quantities distilled is "cheap."
Years ago I began a darkroom printing session, mixed my Dektol with tap water, as usual and......NO ACTIVITY. I couldn't find any evidence of contamination at my end, so...I called the water department. Seems they'd put a "harmless" slug of acid, probably HCl, down the pipes to "clear things out." A potent stop bath, and a good argument for mixing ALL chemicals with distilled water.