Thanks for all the input guys ( or gals)
All of the above is true... I confused myself a bit with metric vs standard, I DID mean 2.25x2.25. So that cleared up, I found that on my smaller omega enlarger there is in fact a removable condenser that was meant for 35mm printing. I removed it and bingo, the square 2.25x neg looks great ( with the 75mm lens)
Now, regarding the 23C, and bear with me, im a little slow on the uptake; I was wrong when I said it was cropping the corners, because I was setting the knob rod at the desired measurement, not the marker/triangle. So, duh, i figured that part out.
Lastly, please school me in sizes. 120 film is a film size, but depending on the camera you use, you can get different image sizes, aka 2.25x2.25" ect; now, what I need clarification on is what all the other sizes mean, for instance a pentax 67 shoots 6x7 format, but its not 6x7 inches, so is it cm, right? I guess i just need basic tutorial in sizes and their different reference names.