In some ways you a preaching to a dead horse Blansky. If you consider PS to be no different than a wet darkroom, then you are saying what is right for you in particular. And if someone says in their personal and sometimes professional experience that they do not see them as being the same, then they are right too.
In the other thread, it was clearly pointed out that in terms of high dollar, high end photography purchased as art, darkroom is pulling away nicely compared to Lightroom works, with the caveat of the image having equal talent behind the lens, yet this seems to get beaten away, excuse after excuse given to flat out ignore that the customer in this genre often does care what he or she is spending his money on.
For me it is a simple equation of what do I want to spend my life doing, a clear marketing advantage and the fact that unlike a computer, I can not order clothes on my enlarger, watch a movie on my paint brush or clone out an ex-girlfriend with my Guild six string guitar.
But I understand where you are coming from, in terms of most of my art photography, I am not entirely trying to keep it real even though I use a strong photojournalistic ethic, I am just trying to avoid the factory of democratization that is clearly devaluing everything creative in its path...
The computer.