Just to clear up some confusion; there are two separate things going one here with oxalic acid.
Soaking you paper: If you soak your paper in oxalic acid, you're neutralizing the akaline buffers that paper manufacturers add to make the paper 'acid free'. You're also physically treating the paper by swelling the cotton fibers, making them more likely to absorb your coating emulsion evenly and completely.
Adding Oxalic to Ferric Oxalate: Bostick & Sullivan has not been adding oxalic acid to our liquid ferric oxalate solutions since we moved to Santa Fe in 1995. Second off, our ferric oxalate will pass the silver nitrate test for the presence of oxalic acid, meaning it does not contain any residual oxalic acid from the manufacturing process. (My dad developed a process back in 1981 that removes any excess oxalic acid, ferric nitrate, nitric acid or water from the powdered ferric oxalate). This also means that our ferric oxalate will work well for Kallitype prints, since silver nitrate is the other main ingredient in that process.
It is correct though, that oxalic acid and ferric oxalate have a close relationship. Ferric Oxalate is a ill-defined molecule, which means it is actually a group of closely related chemicals that all act the same way. When you add oxalic acid to ferric oxalate solution, you're converting the ill-defined ferric oxalate into it's stoichiometric form. To make a long story short, the stoichiometric form is a 'balanced' solution that reacts more completely with the platinum and palladium, yielding richer blacks, smooth tonal separations and more contrast. (I have gone back and forth about adding it to our liquid grades, but for now I'm not going to change things.)
Does the residual oxalic acid in your pre-soaked paper have an effect on the ferric oxalate when you lay down your emulsion? Sure, there's probably enough left in the paper to change the ferric oxalate into it's stoichiometric form. If you add oxalic acid to your ferric oxalate, will it neutralize the buffers in the paper enough to make a difference? I doubt it. Our tests show that you can add about 15 grams of oxalic acid to 100 ml of 27% ferric oxalate before it begins crystalizing out. If you used 1 ml of ferric oxalate to make an 8x10 platinum print, you'd only be applying .15 grams of oxalic acid, hardly enough to neautralize the calcium carbonate buffer in the paper.
It's late, so I'm not making sense, but I hope this has helped clear up some misconceptions.