Some comments and thoughts at random:
First, if this is a black-and-white darkroom, your chemicals are fairly innocuous except for used fix, and you can safely dispose of those (diluted beforehand) in your septic system. Just be sure that the volume of the extra waste doesn't overload your system. MQ and PQ developers break down fine in a septic system. Ascorbic-acid-based developers are even more eco-friendly. Even pyro developers break down well. Citric or acetic acid stops should be fine too if diluted beforehand (an acetic-acid stop is 1-2%; vinegar is 5-6%).
I used a darkroom hooked to a septic system for years and had zero problems disposing of developer and stop. What I did do, was find a way to deal with the used fixer. The best way is to collect the fix and then take it to a local photo-finishing business and simply give it to them for silver recovery. Most photofinishers are happy to do this since they make a little profit on the reclaimed silver. In your area, there must somewhere still be an analog photo lab around and they will certainly have silver-reclamation capability. I used to save up 10-20 gallons of fix and then take it in to my local lab.
Lacking that, you'll have to lug used fix somewhere else to dispose of it. When my local photo lab went out of business, I had to find an alternative. I tried taking my used fix to the hazmat people, but they have absolutely no idea of silver recovery. They marked the five gallons of used fix I brought them for incineration... In many areas (like mine at the time), low-volume users were allowed to dispose of smaller quantities of used fixer into the municipal sewer system. I ended up lugging my jugs of used fix to a relative's to dispose of it that way.
Alternately, you can reclaim the silver yourself, which removes enough of the bacteria-toxic heavy metal to be able to dispose of the fix into the septic system.
Fiber-base print washing uses a lot of water, even with the soak-dump-refill method. RC papers need much less, but are really not the same thing. If you use fiber-base paper, you may want to divide your washing regime into a holding/soak tray/tub in your waterless darkroom and then carry the prints elsewhere to where you have running water for the real wash. The soak (with agitation, of course) will remove quite a bit of the fix and you will then be able to wash, hopefully at low-flow volumes, with the waste water going into the septic system. I'd add the water from the soak tray or tub to the used fix and take it in for silver recovery.
Hope this helps a bit,
Doremus