The DP-3 finder, non-Ai, used SPD's and LEDs. The older DP-2 used CDS cells. Nikon discontinued the DP-2 once the DP-3 was announced, and filled F2S orders with the F2SB.
The DP-3 came out before the DP-12.
Ai lenses were introduced with Ai cameras. This was a system switch-over. The Non-Ai versions of lenses were discontinued when the Ai system was introduces, but a large inventory of some lenses remained. It was cheaper to buy a non-Ai version of some lenses and have it converted by Nikon to Ai, rather than buy the Ai version of the lens.
Nikon had to keep up with the Canon FD mount, which has auto-indexing. Canon moved from the FL mount, which required stop-down metering. Manually-indexed Nikon lenses were easier to use than Canon FL mount lenses. The FD mount was a one-up on manually indexed lenses.