I totally disagree about IS and VR.
They are not designed for situations in which you can use a tripod anyhow, so the "just use a tripod" argument makes no sense. It goes without saying that the tripod is a better option. They serve different functions.
Additionally, while I said my piece about AF, I should also say that I think 90% of the problems with it can be taken care of by simply: 1. Using one-point focusing instead of automatic point selection, and 2. separating the AF command from the shutter button. I do not understand peoples' desires to not use the AF this way, or the fact that this is not the default on all AF cameras. When you do this, all you are doing is using the AF as a motor. You are still making all the decisions, and the thought process is exactly the same as it is with manual-focus. At this point, all it is is a convenience...which is all it could ever hope to be until the aforementioned brain hookup is invented. The closest thing to the brain hookup so far has been Canon's ECF, and though I do use it in some situations, it is pretty clunky, with focus/compose usually being faster IME.