The shutter should not have to push the body cocking lever out of the way. There may be a little room for the cocking lever to move up, but the shutter should not have to push it. It sounds like the shutter is fine and it's the mechanical interface that is the problem.
Never squirt Tri-flow into a shutter. It's much too oily and will gum it up. This is a working shutter so don't squirt anything into it. (I will admit to freeing a sticky shutter by using electronic contact cleaner that evaporates without residue, but absolutely not Tri-flow.)
Someone who really knows like user Mamiya_Repair will probably be along to suggest the proper solution, but the two places I would look are:
- The body cocking lever or lens cocking handle might be a little bent, or reshaping it a tiny amount may relieve the problem.
- The lens/shutter is mounted with a locating pin on the back, but there is a tiny bit of rotational slop. If you loosen the retaining ring on the back (and the brace between the lenses if there is one), you may be able to rotate the lens just enough to clear the cocking lever.