Regarding the home tent comparison, I would repeat that with the lenses at f/8. At full aperture there is some vignetting and if the cameras have different metering patterns that will weigh on the exposure. With f/8 or f/11 or something like that you certainly eliminate the variability that vignetting introduces in your test.
Also, you should close the entrance of light into the camera from the viewfinder. That can influence the reading in a different way in the different cameras.
Finally, I would do a test in full light. In the low light range different light meters might have different precision.
When all this is corrected, I think you should have 1/3, or 1/2 of EV of difference between different cameras with the same lens.
If you don't, you might either "memorize" it, just keep in mind the different behaviour of the light meters, or re-calibrate some cameras in such a way as to have the same behaviour, if that helps you working more comfortably.
The choice of exposure can be subjective, but the measurement of light should be objective and "correct". Based on that, you make subjective choices regarding the desired exposure of your frame.
I am a user/proponent of external light meters, both incident light and spot reflected light. When you get used to that, and correctly grasp their use and the principles of exposure, you will see that you will use internal light metering only on certain occasions.
The problem of the overexposure of the shots - if present - is separate from the mismatching of the lightmeters: old second-hand cameras deserve cleaning, lubrication and shutter adjustement (and maybe light-meter adjustement) otherwise you are also dealing with different behaviours of shutters.
When using external light meters you will use your camera in manual mode and therefore it is important (especially if using slide film) that your shutter speeds (and your lens apertures) are correct, or correctly calibrated.
Generally speaking, when using black and white film you have a certain comfortable room for exposure "mistakes" and, from what I gather on APUG, you will get to your final desired result in any case. It's when using slides (as I do, I only use slides basically) that light metering becomes important, or even very important, if you want to exploit the entire density range of the material.