I think I can figure out the question, so here are my answers:
MF and LF lenses are the same as 35mm lenses in terms of focal length. 100mm is 100mm is 100mm.
35mm film grain is the same as MF film grain is the same as LF film grain (with a few exceptions like Tri-X and different bases).
Thus, pretend you take a photo with a 100mm lens at f/8 on a 35mm camera, take a photo with a 100mm lens at f/8 on MF, ie 645, 6x6, 6x7, 6x9, 617, take a photo with a 100mm lens at f/8 on 4x5, take a photo with a 100mm lens at f/8 on 8x10.
Process them identically, cut out a section of film 24x36mm from each of those, enlarge them, and all things being equal they will look identical. Grain the same size, same field-of-view, same tonality because there's the same number of grains in the same area.
But all things are not equal. 35mm film is usually enlarged what, 5-10-20x (20x is 18x28")? And MF film what, 3-10x?
It's hard enough trying to find an 8x10" enlarger, can you imagine (or calculate) how big a 20x enlargement from an 8x10 would be? Most these days would be contact-printed (it's all I can do with my 8x10s), I can't imagine regularly enlarging any of them above 2-3x (3x is 24x30", that's huge).
Thus, there's no point in making LF lenses that can resolve as well as 35mm lenses. It's possible, but they would be astronomically expensive and not worth it for 99.5% of LF shooters.
Sharper smaller lenses taking negs that could be enlarged were the whole point of 35mm cameras when Barnack invented them.
Also, not all 35mm lenses are sharper than MF lenses or LF lenses, but there's definitely a trend.
So in a way, yes they will look the same. It's possible that a very sharp 35mm lens will look better than a dog MF lens. And vice-versa.
But in a scientific, theoretical, non-reality sense, get two lenses with the exact same resolving power and yes, they'll look identical.