In 4x5 I only use Rollei IR 400 and Efke IR 820. I'd say Efke has more of a typical, dreamy IR look, bu lacks some sharpness/crispness. Mainly because of its dreamy/glowing look. Sometimes it can come in handy, sometimes I prefer a more accurate look, which the Rollei IR 400 provides. Still IR, but much sharper, less grain.
As a filter I use a Heliopan RG 715 (715nm). In medium format I use a 700nm filter made by Rollei.
Exposurewise, when using the 715nm filter, I set my light meter to 1-3 ASA for the Efke and to somewhere between 3-12 ASA for the Rollei. As always with IR, I do some "bracketing". I usually estimate the correct exposure (light meter + experience + some guessing) and then take another shot overexposed by one stop.
I process film at home. Recently, I got hooked to black & white slides, so I now mostly do b&w reversal processing. It's the same process, no matter what film it is.
Here's an example of a recent IR shot in 4x5 on Efke IR 820 with a 715nm filter.