It really depends on the type of photography and subject matter. I have never bought the "I don't know where to look" argument when it comes to composition and printing. It really depends. Some photos benefit from a clear center of interest on no detail elsewhere, and some photos benefit from clear detail everywhere.
I think you are correct, Michael. And I also think that I am correct, and nobody is ever wrong about what they perceive to be good photographs.
We've been down this road before, and to me what I find important is to be educated enough about our materials that we can get what we want from them. You want lots of clear detail, and you've found a way of doing it. I know how to do that too, but choose to reveal less detail, because that's how I like my pictures. The distinction is, I think, that we have worked out how to get to where we want to be, and that's all that really matters.
To get somewhat back on track with the discussion, if I was an avid Tri-X 320 user, I would use TMax 100, expose it at 400, and push process in Xtol 1+1 to get a highly similar tone reproduction of Tri-X 320. It's not identical, especially not in the grain department, but I would have a solution that I was happy with. And it's all by just tweaking the process a little bit. That type of knowledge is, in my opinion, real power in photography, and especially printing. I'm not saying that my solution is the be all for everybody, but it works for me. And finding a solution is often very much around the corner, if we're willing to put up a little bit of hard work, and some critical thinking to get there.