The only times I've mixed dichromate (once to make a 1% water solution for alt-process contrast control, and twice for B&W reversal bleach), lacking a fume hood or proper mask, I mixed the crystals into the liquid outdoors in a slight breeze.
I've never used thiourea toner, though I do recall "taste papers" when I was in high school that had some micro-quantity of that soaked into them, which we were expected to taste (the test being that some are genetically unable to taste that compound, though most can). It probably wasn't known to be carcinogenic yet in the early 1970s, and the amount involved was well below the toxicity threshold. I always neutralized the dichromate bleach by mixing it with the clearing bath (sodium sulfite solution), which turned the bleach from red/orange to green, indicating the hexavalent chromium had been reduced to trivalent, which is much safer in all respects.
Another bleach option for B&W reversal is 12% or stronger hydrogen peroxide acidified with citric or acetic acid. Little risk for inhalation, certainly less hazardous than sulfuric acid (used in reversal bleaches containing dichromate, permanganate, or copper sulfate), and safe for drains (though after use, probably ought to be treated like exhausted fixer). Slow, and you have to take precautions against the dissolved silver resettling on the emulsion and staining, but it does work and may be the most environmentally friendly method. Can't be formulated to rehalogenate, however (as far as I know).
The OP, however, is interested in processing old Ektachrome -- if the E-6 in his fridge is still good (after four years?!), that would be the way to go. If not, a little Farmer's Reducer and a refix will remove the background density that's most likely due to a silver filter layer -- or processing in C-41 will get rid of that along with the image silver while leaving a dye image behind.