I have (and love) a Maxxum 7. Prior to this, my loyalty was split between my 600si and Dynax 5 - if I needed excellent AF, I'd use the 5, otherwise I'd choose the 600si for the superb ergonomics, more comfortable size/weight and the simple, intuitive, common-sense control layout.
Enter the 7 - now I don't have to choose. Brilliant AF (better than the 5), and the same near-perfect handling as the 600si.
As for lenses, I have original (read 'early') 50/1.7 and 50/2.8 Macro lenses, as well as the (late model) 28-105/3.5-4.5 RS zoom. My other lens is a Tamron 70-300, which is fine for what it is.
The two fifties are both excellent, with 'non-metal' bodies that are a good compromise between build and weight. I have complete faith in their ability to stand up to 'normal' use - note that I am fairly careful with my gear, regardless of what it is or how tough it is.
The 28-105 is a good lens too, decent wide open and improving when stopped down a bit - it gets a bit less use since I got the fifties though, coz I just like using those smaller, faster lenses when I can.
I almost exclusively use AF, with MF being mostly reserved for macro - yeah the focus rings could be bigger, but I've gotten used to the size and location so I'm sure you could too.
Good luck, and have fun.
Regards,
Gordon