No, no, no, I actually have all the answers. OK, maybe not. My 2 Cents however is:
1. Do pick a sensible combo or two when getting started. pick something pretty bullet proof that lots of people use, lots get great results with and try to get good reliable results. My personal view is to stick to traditional emulsions at the very beginning. I would personally recommend: Fp4+ & TriX/Neopan 400/Hp5+. If in smaller 35mm format, I would drop the HP5+ and use one of the former. I would use either D76/ID-11 (they are essentially the same) or Xtol (diluted 1+1 as a starting point). Any of these combined is super popular and a great place to start.
2. KEEP NOTES on exposure and development details. Once you have gotten to grips with a trad film and std dev, try some new technology films. I personally recommend Delta 100 and 400. The reason is that they behave closer to normal films than TMAX100/Acros etc, yet Delta 100 is miles finer in grain than FP4+ and has biting sharpness. Delta 400 is very fine grained; far finer than TriX and HP5+ with only Neopan coming close (of those I have mentioned. I do not have experience with the new TMY-2). Keep using your std developer so you are only changing one thing at a time. Continue to experiment and see what you think. A good ploy is to shoot a roll of your good ole standby for a scene you like and then put a roll of your new film thru. You have reliable outcome in the form of your old standby and can see how your new film does.
3. Once you have this sorted out, try some different developers. Examples would be a fine grain dev such as perceptol/Microdol and also an acutance dev such as FX-39 etc. Leave staining devs until last.
4. Whenever you get the chance to shoot a test roll and hone your exposure and dev times, do so. Thats what I am doing now before a trip to india, trying to get my exposure/dev times for several films totally screwed down with a new dilution of Xtol (1+2), which I am otherwise familiar with.
Personally I am using a number of films at present: Delta 100, Delta 400 and TriX, Neopan. The reason is this. I am confident using any of the three 400 speed films and I want to shoot real subjects to decide which I actually prefer under real (rather than test) conditions. I have a sneaky suspicion I will decide on one traditional emulsion (Neopan or TrIX) and keep the Delta 400 for when I want really fine grain, with delta 100 as my slow film (IMO it is an epic leap in resolution over FP4+ but is trickier to get right in exposure and devt). So, I will probably come to rest with three films in regular use with Ilford 3200 for exceptional circumstances. There is nothing wrong with using more than one or two films, but don't try to do it in one leap.
Another point would be filters. Do not trust the factors given by film manufacturers. If you intend to use yellow, orange filters etc, get things sorted without filters first (with each film) and then do a test to see what exposure factor you need to apply to get the same exposure with the filter on. I found that with B&W filters, the Med Yellow (8) was supposed to require 1 stop and 1/3 is my personal factor (1 stop is clearly over exposed and 2/3 is a touch over - 1/2 would be perfect actually as +1/3 is a teeny weeny bit out, but more accurate than +2/3)...and the Orange /red (23?) at 2 stop factor actually requires 1 & 1/3 stops.
Other factors come into it later on e.g I like to be able to load 2 x 120 films onto a reel. This is easy with ilford films but can be a pain with TriX and Neopan due to the sticky strip they use to attach the film to the backing paper (it likes to stick to the rails, the film etc - ilford does not extend it so wide on the fils so it interferes with the rails less...and is less sticky). Will I decide on this alone? No. However, if after this next 'final decider photo trip' I find two films I can happily work with, it will be the deciding feature as it makes a difference to economy. A big difference in fact.
some 35mm cassettes are a pig to open and that might sway you when two films are otherwise equal in your mind.
Print, print and print some more. Then try to figure out the relationship between the negs and issues you come across.
A lot that you do will depend on your preferences in the print and also your enlarger. That makes a HUGE difference.