And how sad it is to view gifted people who does not pursue the skill to benefit themselves and others from their gift...
Not necessarily.
Even though I had developed exceptional skills/talents in snow skiing, for example, I had other plans for life.
Skiing was a youthful hobby/endeavor, I never developed a significant interest in making it a lifetime vocation. I was fast enough, but I never saw it as a way to make a real living/spend my life; I preferred the ocean and wanted to do research (something that I was also good at), skiing was a just pastime.
I wound up in careers I never imagined I'd be in when I was 18. Instead of research I followed a more "mechanical" path for most of my work life. I followed what I had done and been taught as a child was a way to make a living; I got a "real" job. It is what my family and friends and school and the society around me "expected" of "someone like me".
I think part of my thought/path/decision/outcome, whatever you might call it, was fostered by the way I was raised, by my social status, my education, the people I hung with, the opportunities I had, and yes probably in some small part, my genetics.
I believe how we each turn out is a compilation of a zillion things and a lot of chance. We build on what came before us: the foundations and patterns our parents and communities provide for us.
Instead of doing research I "ended up" working for wages and raising 2 kids in a way that fosters them toward breaking the mold I was expected to fit into. Both are each succeeding in ways that were for me just pipe dreams.
I got to use different gifts than I planned on, different than others saw in me, that's ok: I have been successful in that endeavor and that will help change the world. And I'm not done yet.
